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Mishlei 18-16 (Giving)

Key Concepts of Mishlei 18-16 (Giving)
The distribution of financial wealth in a community is affected by many factors, but ultimately it is Hashem who determines how much each of us possesses at any time. And yet individuals are motivated to give some of their possessions to others while many individuals find it extremely difficult to give money away.
Why would someone give away his own money? One factor is the mitzvah of tzedakah. Another is the debt of gratitude the recipient will owe him. There is always the possibility that the giver will himself be in need at some future time and will be able to draw on that obligation.
The practice of giving brings another important benefit to the giver. There is often an effect on others in the community, beyond those who actually receive his gift. People instinctively admire someone who displays generosity. They appreciate witnessing the phenomenon of Hashem’s blessing coming to life in practice. They also appreciate having a resource of cash flow within the community, imagining that at some future time they may directly benefit from that resource in one way or another.
People of stature in a community are often in a position to give honour to selected individuals. They are likely to favor individuals who are known for their generosity because such individuals are seen as an asset to the community. Thus, a generous person may find that he can draw on a pool of goodwill to help him get things done. He is welcome among highly placed people and has access to their attention.
Because of all these advantages a generous person needs to consider carefully why he is giving his money away and how public his actions should be. Clearly, if his generosity is kept hidden, its spiritual value rises as its publicity value goes down.
Exploring Mishlei
(טז) מַתָּן אָדָם יַרְחִיב לוֹ וְלִפְנֵי גְדֹלִים יַנְחֶנּוּ:
A man’s giving eases his way, and brings him before the great.
 
Learning Mishlei
מַתָּן אָדָם יַרְחִיב לוֹ 
וְלִפְנֵי גְדֹלִים יַנְחֶנּוּ:
A man’s giving eases his way in society  מַתָּן אָדָם יַרְחִיב לוֹ , and his reputation for generosity brings him to the favorable attention of the great  וְלִפְנֵי גְדֹלִים יַנְחֶנּוּ including community leaders and talmidei chachamim.
Additional Insights
(1). The word for giving used in this proverb ( מַתָּן ) is a general term, covering a wide variety of giving, including needy people and the well-to-do. ( מלבים )
(2) Instead of giving away money, the proverb may be referring to the giving of knowledge to students. If a teacher is reluctant to make his hard-earned Torah knowledge freely available to others who have not worked to understand it as he has, that teacher is reminded how he will also benefit. Through the interaction with his students his knowledge will be refined and clarified. ( שבט מיהודה )